篇一：learn how to say no

weve all been taught that we should help people. it is the right thing to do and will make us popular with others. it may even win us favors in return.

however, we must be realistic. we cant say yes to every request. if we did, we would fail or go crazy for sure.

sometimes we simply dont have the time to help. in this case, we must know how to say no politely.

when we need to say no, here is one method we can try. first, we should tell the truth. if we really cant do something, we should just say so.

second, we should remember to refuse requests politely. we must ***municate clearly, but must also be sincere and sympathetic. a true friend will understand.

finally, we must not feel guilty about saying no. sometimes refusing others is the right thing to do. it can save ourselves, and them, a lot of trouble.

in short, we cannot please everyone all the time. refusing favors is a part of life.

译文：学习如何说不

我们都被教导应该帮助别人。这是应该做的，它会使我们受欢迎。它甚至会为我们赢得一些回报。

但是，我们必须要实际一点。我们不能答应每一个要求。如果我们那样做，我们一定会失败或发疯。

有时候我们真的没有时间帮忙。既然如此，我们就必须知道如何有礼貌地说不。

当我们需要说不的时候，我们有办法试试。首先，我们应该要说实话。如果我们真的做不了什么，我们应该说不。

第二，我们应该记住礼貌地拒绝对方的要求。我们必须清楚，但我们必须真诚和富有同情心。一个真正的朋友会谅解的。

最后，我们不必内疚地说不。有时候我们应该拒绝别人。它能为我们自己和其他人省去很多麻烦。

总而言之，我们不能总是取悦所有人。拒绝请求是人生的一部分。

篇二：how to be popular

most people would like to be popular with others, but not everyone can achieve this goal. what is the secret to popularity? in fact, it is very ******.

the first step is to improve our appearance. we should always make sure that we stay in good shape and dress well.

when we are healthy and well-groomed, we will not only look better but also feel better. in addition, we should **ile and appear friendly. after all, our facial expression is an important part of our appearance.

if we can do this, people will be attracted to our good looks and impressed by our confidence.

another important step is developing more consideration for others. we should always put others first and place their interests before our own. its also important to be good listeners; in this way people will feel ***fortable enough to confide in us.

however, no matter what we do, we must not gossip.

above all, we must remember to be ourselves, not phonies. only by being sincere and respectful of others can we earn their respect. if we can do all of the above, i am sure popularity will ***e our way.

译文：如何才能受人欢迎

大多数人都想受欢迎，但不是每个人都能实现自己的目标。受欢迎的秘诀何在?事实上是很简单的。

步骤一，先改善我们的外表。我们必须确保我们健康且穿着得体。当我们既健康又穿着得体时，我们不仅看起来更有活力，而且感觉好多了。

此外，我们需要微笑和友好。毕竟，面部表情是外表的重要组成部分。如果我们能做到这一点，别人会被我们的美貌所吸引，也会被我们的自信所打动。

另一个重要的步骤是培养对他人的考虑。永远以他人为重，并把别人的利益放在自己的利益之前。当个好听众也是很重要的;如此一来，别人才能很自在地对我们吐露心事。

但是，不管我们做什么，都不要闲聊。最重要的是做你自己，而不是做一个伪君子。只有你诚恳、尊重别人，才能赢得别人的尊重。

如果我们能做到以上几点，我相信人气就快到了。

[小学语文课前三分钟演讲稿]课前三分钟演讲稿（2） | 各位老师、同学们：

大家好!今天，我演讲的题目是“养成良好的习惯”。

有一个故事：很久以前，有一个小和尚想学着剪头发来帮助寺庙里的和尚。于是他开始用冬瓜练习，但每次用水洗冬瓜时，他总是把剃刀插进冬瓜里。

没多久就学会了如何剃发,当他第一次帮人剃发，去打水洗头时，“顺手”把剃刀插了上去。你可以想象，小和尚成了杀人犯。

究竟是什么给小和尚的一片好心带来害人害已的结果呢?

答案很简单。就是因为他用冬瓜作练习时养成了把剃刀插向冬瓜的习惯，尽管为自己的师兄剃发时心里想着这是人不是冬瓜，但手却不听使唤，习惯性地把刀插了上去，因此，是那个小小的坏习惯害了他。

虽然故事有些夸张，但我们不能做一个为别人理发的小和尚。但是同学们，你们有类似的坏习惯吗？例如：

随地吐痰、随意骂人、说脏话、随手乱扔乱撂、经常大声喧哗、在楼道里追逐打闹、自习课上说话等，如果有，它们迟早会给你带来或大或小的麻烦。

这个故事再一次告诉我们，坏习惯一旦形成，即使很小，也不容易改变，最终会给自己和他人带来伤害。

所以，我们平时要养成一些好的习惯，良好的习惯能够使我们在各个方面受益匪浅：平时不浪费一分一秒，努力学习就会使成绩上升;尽自己的一份力维持班级的卫生，就很有可能使班集体成为“卫生模范班”，如果每个同学都这样，学校也会变得干净漂亮，我们在其中学习、生活也会心情舒畅;平时坚持锻炼身体，就可能在运动会上一展风采;帮同学讲解问题，也许会使自己有新的发现;在家中帮父母做一些力所能及的家务，自己能做的事自己做，不给父母增添不必要的麻烦……

同学们，好习惯是成功的一半，养成好习惯，从现在开始，从自我做起！

谢谢大家!

[高中英语课前三分钟演讲稿sub-info" id="sub3">课前三分钟演讲稿（3） | 【英语课前三分钟演讲稿一】

good morning/afternoon! first thing first, i gotta say,wow,its funny thing to be given a chance like that.trurh be told,i really got a little bit nervous before i stand right here ,so called stage fright.

if you look specifically on me .you may find my hands shaking,pretty assembles the guy who suffered from pakinsons disease,and legs wobbling ,like i caught so-called ball leg. okay,lets stop going around the bush and get back to my topic today.

i really like to talk a funny story i have just heard.a lady called lucy emigrated to united states several years ago.her spoken english is not that fluent .

and one day,she is just sitting on the couch with his u.s friends mandy watching sit-***.a noise of bump had the attention of mandy,which led her to go out of the house trying to figure out what had happened.

can you imagine that mandy go straight out with merely a sweater.so lucy shouted at her,"lucy ,turn your clothes on." what suprised her most,beyond her wildest imagination, is that almost all the male in this country took their head out of the window.

admittedly,lucy made a mistake here .the word spitted means mandy is totally naked to the reason that male looked out of the window.the right sentence shall be,"put your clothing on.

"the story inspires you to take a careful look on the vast difference between eastern and western culture. thats full of it,thank you for your time!

【英语课前三分钟演讲稿二】

i have a dream every one has his own dream.when i was a little kid ,my dream was even to have a candy shop of my own .but now ,when i am 16 years old ,standing here ,my dreams have already changed a lot.

i have got quite different experience from other girls.while they were playing toys at home,while they were dreaming to be the princesses in the story .i was running in the hard rain,jumping in the heavy snow,pitching in the strong wind.

nothing could stop me ,because of a wonderful call from my heart -- to be an athlete.yeah ,of course ,im an athlete,im so proud of that all the time .

when i was 10 years old ,i became a shot-put athlete.the training was really hard ,i couldnt bear the heavy shot in my hands .but i always believe that "god only help those who help themselves".

during those hard days,i find i was growing more quickly than others of the same age.to be an athlete is my most correct choice.but,i quit my team after entering high school because of a silly excuse.

i really didnt want to stop my sports career anyway.

today i say to you my friends that even though i must face the difficulties of yesterday ,today and tomorrow .i still have a dream .it is a dream deeply rooted in my soul.

i have a dream that one day ,i can run,jump and pitch just like i used to be.

i have a dream that one day , i can go back to my dream sports and join the national team.

i have a dream that one day ,i can stand on the highest place at the olympic games.with all the cameras pointing at me.i will tell everyone that im so proud to be a chinese athlete!

this is my hope .this is the faith that i continue my steps with!!!

with this faith ,i will live though the strong wind and heavy rain ,never give up !

so let victory ring from my heart,from all of you.when we allow victory to ring .i must be the one!

in my imagination,im a bird ,a magical bird.i carry my dreams all with me by my big wings. i fly though the mountains ,though the forests ,over the sea,to the sun ,the warmest place in the aerospace!

every night ,i have a dream ,i see a girl ---**iling!

[大学生课前三分钟英语演讲稿sub-info" id="sub4">课前三分钟演讲稿（4） | 【一】大学生课前三分钟英语演讲稿

the first time i saw bao was in xx, the year when thomas and uber cup was held. at that time he was playing against li zongwei, who is also a good player from malaysia. bao beat him.

to tell the truth, at first the reason why i liked him was just because i thought he was pretty.*(maybe it is not a suitable word, but i think no better word can describe him, he is really pretty!) from that time, i have focused on him.

then gradually, i found that he not only has good appearance, but also has a talent for badminton.

he is very tall, about 1.90 meters. he is the tallest one among all the players in the chinese badminton team.

in xx, he is chosen as the flag holder stands for china in the opening ceremony in the 15th asian games held in doha. it was the first time that the badminton players were chosen to take over the special task, before which time, it belonged to the basketball players. it was a great honor.

and it also proved that bao was an excellent athlete. we are all proud of him.

he began to play badminton when he was at primary school. in xx, he won his first good medal, which was significant to him, in guangzhou. because of that, he entered the chinese badminton team.

as he is as old as lin dan, who is the top one in the world, he is always put into a situation which is not good to him. he seldom beats lin dan, so he gained a name which is called千年老二. in fact, his techniques are ***prehensive, but he is lack of passion, the desire to win is not so strong.

so he always has misplays. due to this, he seldom wins the gold medal. i think this is related to his character.

he is easygoing and couth; he looks as if he will never get angry with anybody. so this affects him while he is playing badminton. in a period of time, critical voice has ***e towards him.

he is under great pressure. he was not in the best state. but recently he cheers up again.

several days ago, the chinese badminton championship xx was held in guangzhou. i went to see him on saturday. i was very excited, and i shouted loudly, hoping he could hear me.

there is no doubt that he won the game. before he went away, he waved hand to us, how excited i was at that time! the next day, he beat li zongwei again and he won the mans single gold medal.

all of us are very happy. after 7 years, which could be a long time for an athlete, he proved himself again in guangzhou, which is considered as his lucky place.

i think this will be the energy of his advancing. and i hope he can keep this fighting will and win the gold medal in the 29th olympic games held in beijing!

【2】 大学生课前三分钟英语演讲

good afternoon,ladies and gentlemen!

im very honored to stand here and give you a short speech! to begin with ,i want to ask a question .does everybody dream a good dream last night?

actually ,today i want to talk about dream with you. of course, what i want to talk is not a dream you have last night,but a dream—— about life.

everyone has dreams about life, different dreams at different life stage,and we need dreams to support us. dreams are like the stars we never reach in the sky,but like most mariners,we can chart our course by them. with the dream,we have a direction,with a direction, we were no longer confused.

with the dream, there is hope,with hope, we have the strength to fight.

i have a dream: to be a doctor.，because doctor may relieve the pain of patients.

may let the human change the health. at the same time, i believed that, those who help others may be able to obtain joyfully. therefore, i hoped in the near future ,i might be a doctor.

but i know，life is tough,and there are always ups and downs, maybe we fail in the way to our aims,and we may feel depressed ,whenever at this time, the dream in our heart can always ***fort us, encourage us ,and support us to move ahead .

young!fortunately, i am young now. just due to it, i know that nothing is impossible.

i firmly believe that nothing can stand in my way. if i cant realize my dream,it result from that i havent work harder enough and i wont find other excuses. if no people believe you, you can make it to prove that you are right.

if you think the god havent blessed you and there is no truth here, you can be***e the god and create the truth.

"my breath swallows the sky and make the yellow river overflow, my sword is famous in kyushu and it can collapse the five sacred mountains." at some time in the past i also had am bitious words and i had some achievements. each achievement results from my hard work.

i always believe that "if you want to have more achievements than others, you must work harder." in some extent, the dream is the hope. if you can insist on doing something, the victory will ***e.

hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly. hold fast to dreams, for when dreams go, life is a barren field frozen with snow. so my dear friends, think of your old and maybe dead dreams.

whatever it is, pick it up and make it alive from today. lets--- move ----out!

thank you for your listening!

best wishes!

四）劳模精神三分钟演讲稿

亲爱的老师，同学们：

创建和谐校园不仅是我们每个学生的责任，更是我们每个新时代的青年应尽的义务，我们要为创建和谐校园作出一份贡献。

蓝天和白云的心一样，希望白鸽自由翱翔。

老师和父母的心一样，希望我们健康成长。

花开的日子我们走进校园这个快乐的地方，在平安校园愉快歌唱；花开的日子我们遨游在校园这个知识的海洋，和老师一起编织梦想；花开的日子我们愿意用心情的音符，去谱写和谐校园的和谐乐章。花开的日子，让我们在和谐的教育氛围中愉快地学习；花开的日子，让我们在和谐的兴趣乐园中陶冶情操；花开的日子，让我们在和谐的人际关系中健康的成长。

未来不是梦，今天，在我们手中！

谢谢。

五）劳模精神三分钟演讲稿

尊敬的各位领导，同事们：

大家好，今天我给大家带来关于如何弘扬工匠精神的演讲，相信大家对工匠精神也不陌生，接下来进入正题。

时代对工匠精神回馈什么

“工匠精神”背后是精致的产品、匠人平和的心境以及追求极致的时代气质。但不能盲目乐观，要看到这种转身是艰难的、需要时间的。无论我们用何种气势磅礴的语气坐而论道，都不会让社会一夜之间凭空出现许多“大国工匠”。

一项针对1794名15至36岁年轻人进行的调查显示，95%的受访青年表示钦佩能在某个领域做到极致的人。但佩服归佩服，行动起来就难多了。因此，尽管“工匠精神”理应是当代人尤其是年轻人气质的重要元素，但绝不会自然而然地成为他们的内在追求。不激活年轻人追求极致的内心，“工匠精神”将可能只是浪漫的传说。

“工匠精神”应该成为一种时代风气。无论是故宫修补文物的匠人还是制作宣纸的手艺人，靠的都是个人的自觉，而大家所津津乐道的德国或者日本的“工匠精神”，显然是一种群体性的选择。这种选择有个体的因素，但更多的是来自社会风气的认可和制度的保障。因此，教育要参与培育新的社会风气，建设新的制度，为从坐论“工匠精神”到自觉践行“工匠精神”的转身准备制度养料，进而使其发酵成如同空气一般自然存在的国民素质、民族精神。

当然，我们还必须直面一个问题：时代对“工匠精神”的回馈是什么?有报道说，航空“手艺人”胡双钱在35年里加工了数十万个飞机零件，没出现过一个次品。但这种手艺在过去并没有让他过上相对富足的生活。这无疑让人遗憾。教育要传递新的信念，社会也要有力地回应这种信念，要让年轻人清楚，这种遗憾正慢慢成为历史。时代正在艰难转身，风向已经改变，是时候俯下身子，做一个专注的“工匠”或“极客”，发现和创造美好，服务他人，推动社会创新和进步了。

我的演讲结束，谢谢大家!

六）劳模精神三分钟演讲稿

“一个慈爱的母亲手中的线，为她任性的孩子的身体做衣服……”每当我读到这首诗，我就会想起我的母亲。妈妈不经意间做的很多事情让我深受感动。

我是一个单亲家庭长大的孩子。就在我出生五个月后，父亲在一场车祸中离开了我。是我妈妈一个人把我带大的。为了让我开心，我妈总是尽力满足我的要求。妈妈常说；“别人家的孩子吃穿用度，我们家有。别的孩子学什么，我们也学。”但是这些都是要花钱的！为了挣钱，我妈开了一家理发店。没日没夜地给人洗头、烫发、染发。一双整天泡在药水里的`手，没过多久，那双温软的手就红了，十根手指肿了。医生说过敏，就让妈妈不要碰药水。但是我妈还在不停的工作，手越来越丑。不仅皮肤又黑又红，还会起皱纹。三十多岁的人就像四十多岁的手。我总是不忍心看着妈妈的手，因为每次看到，我的心都像碎了一样。

有一年冬天，妈妈的手终于冻断了。手掌上有四五个一厘米左右的开口，就像小口一样。嘴里有嫩红色的肉。你一碰它，它就像刀子一样痛。晚上，我看见妈妈静静地躲在浴室里，给她的手喂药。她的嘴角轻轻抽动，仿佛在忍受着什么。我想：一定是很痛很痛。妈妈不想让我注意到。我问妈妈手疼不疼。我妈若无其事地说：“劳动的手不都是这样的吗？”突然，我泪流满面…

哦，妈妈，是你的手，深深地打动了我。我想为我握住你受伤的手。我想知道哪一天这双手会停下来休息！

七）劳模精神三分钟演讲稿

境界，顾名思义就是思想上升的高度。境界有大有小。世间的大者，远远超乎我们的想象;世间的小者，也同样远远超乎我们的想象。因为真正的大小不仅仅在眼界之中，还在人的心智之中;它绝不单纯是一种文学描写中的境界，更多的时候，它表现的为生活里面很多实用的规则。简单地说来，大小就是人的思想的宽度、深度和广度。一个人的境界高低反映在他的志向、他的思想、他的生活上，而这些总总决定了他的觉悟、他以后人生的道路，也必然决定和影响着他的一生成就作为。

在童话世界中，《丑小鸭》是我们耳熟能详的故事。丑小鸭在一个养鸭场破壳而出，因为生就一副丑陋的尊容，终日被其他鸭子嘲笑，被主人嫌弃。终于有一日，丑小鸭飞过篱笆逃走了。丑小鸭离家出走是被迫的，因为不仅周围的人不喜欢他，就连他的兄弟姐妹也欺负他。他在野鸭群中受排挤，又目睹了雁被猎人打死的悲惨场面，最后死里逃生。在农家小屋，他虽然也受嘲弄，也被人看不起，但已经有了一个可以生存的“温暖的屋子”，“有了一些朋友”，他应该满足了。我们设想一下，如果当时丑小鸭的境界是只要有一个可以生存的“温暖的屋子”，“有了一些朋友”，那么毫无疑问的，他就会留在了农家小屋，甘心当一只碌碌无为、再平凡不过的鸭子了，也就不会有了后来美丽的白天鹅。但是他偏不，他不愿意享受这种“安逸”，他要到更广大的世界里去。因为他的境界不至于此，他要去奋斗去实现自己活着的价值，他要证明自己的尊严。于是他走了，他可以按照自己喜欢的方式生活了，他见到那永远也不会忘记的美丽的天鹅了。后来，严冬到了，他虽然几乎被冻死，但当他仰慕的天鹅飞回来时，他不顾一切地朝他们飞去。于是，他发现，自己已经变成一只美丽的白天鹅了。试想，在已经有了相对安逸的生活以后，他如果不思进取，不再追求，他怎么能得到最终的幸福生活呢?

可见，境界的高低深刻的影响了人的成就。但独有高的境界也是不够的，拥有长远的境界也是很重要的。

中国历来有句俗语，是这样说的“宁可做鸡头，不可做凤尾。”意思就是宁可做鸡群中的领袖，也不去做凤凰群中的跟班。对于这句话，我本人是很不以为然的。在鸡群中与在凤凰群中的境界本身就是一种质的区别。试想，一只鸡，它为能在鸡群中做领导而沾沾自喜时，它本身也就注定是可悲的。于是它终其一生，兢兢业业，保有自己在鸡群中的地位，但无奈它尽管有着在鸡群中显赫的地位，但从本质上来说它还是一只普普通通、平凡到不能再平凡的鸡，永远都逃脱不了被人按上砧板的时候。也曾看过这样一个故事：一只小鸟掉了队，误打误撞跟上了一群凤凰。它发觉本人从未飞得如此之高，从未那么靠近日出的灿烂，日落的余晖。于是它的境界变了，它决心要做一只凤凰，它开始努力拍打着翅膀跟上凤凰的队伍。不久之后，它惊讶的发现自己的翅膀长硬可，羽毛也变成火红色的了。地上还有人指着它说：“看，凤凰!”许许多多人都渴望成为凤凰，不过又能有多少人能坚持起初在凤凰群中的卑微。于是许多人宁可选择了高傲的鸡头，将自己的境界一再的放低，于是不管他们之前的身份是什么，最终他们都通通沦为一只庸俗的“鸡”。从表面上看起来，似乎是做鸡头当领袖要远比做凤凰的跟班这种境界高得多了，但从长远上来说，这种自以为是实在是太愚蠢了。因为在凤尾之中，人有理想就会在竞争中慢慢让自己进步、成长，于是终有一日他也能成为一只高贵骄傲的凤凰，永远脱离了被人当下酒菜的命运，能够走上了一个崭新的人生舞台。

通常在人类社会上崇高的成就，其本身成就的缔造者的境界更是深不可测。马克思一生参考了各国古典哲学史、古典经济学史、唯物辩证学史，呕心沥血数十载写成了《马克思宣言》，发起工人运动，领导世界工人武装。即使因此多国的反对人士都对他憎恶不已，几欲除之而后快，同时生活面临穷困潦倒，但他也是从不曾放弃的，甚至到了他生命的最后一刻。正如于丹曾说过“人生至高的境界是一种灵魂生活，这种灵魂生活是主善的。”是，最高的境界成就了崇高、不朽的作为，灵魂早已超脱了肉体所要达到的求真境界，这是一种永恒、一种真善。

是的，境界成就了作为。那么在学习、生活中，我们是本着中庸之道，寻求碌碌无为、平平淡淡的境界，还是寻求攀登高峰、永不低头的境界，答案不是很明显吗?

八）劳模精神三分钟演讲稿

亲爱的老师和同学们：

我低年级的时候，一路用笔当武器，在一个美术馆当学生。我认为用钢笔画画很简单。就算写完了，我也没想到遇到的是老师严厉的眼神。为了教育我们的孩子，老师付出了很大的努力，最终让我们学会了模仿绘画。

虽然最后学了一点，但是被下一个挑战的难度惊呆了。这一次我们画的是抽象画，对于我们一年级的小学生来说根本不可能。但是，老师不这么认为。他每天画两幅不可思议的画，外加一张手工剪纸。画完画，他可以回家，下课休息。

在这里训练，我学到了很多。日复一日，年复一年，我被宠坏的“小师傅”在这里被老师指指点点，几乎成了助手。经过两年的学习，我那胆小娇气的“小主人”被培养成了一个胆大的男孩子。这时候我已经觉得自己学得不错，准备收手了。走的时候老师领着大家。这一刻，我觉得我的骄傲太傻了，我决定再来这里学习。

时光飞逝，日月如梭。短短两年，我先后被授予“小画家”、“绘画大师”等称号。我很受鼓舞，有前进的动力。不知不觉，我已经长大了，开始了另一项运动，足以让我的世界更加丰富多彩。

从此，画画成了我的最爱。每当我有时间，就是我画画的时候。不仅仅是画画，我还追求其他方面。这是我对这些爱好的渴望和追求。

九）劳模精神三分钟演讲稿